Helpful Resources

Below are some sources and referrals you might find useful.

Book Recommendations

Body Image

  • Anti-Diet by Christy Harrison

Online Resources

Nonmonogamous Relationships

  • Polyamory: A clinical toolkit for therapists (and their clients) by Martha Kauppi
  • Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
  • A Happy Life in an Open Relationship: the essential guide to a healthy and fulfilling
    nonmonogamous love life by Susan Wetzel
  • It’s Called Polyamory: coming out about your nonmonogamous relationship by Tamara Pincus
  • The Polyamory Breakup Book: causes, prevention and survival by Kathy Lebriola



  • Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski
  • Come As You Are Workbook by Emily Nagoski
  • Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz
  • When Someone you Love is Kinky by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt

Relationship Development

  • It Takes One to Tango by Winifred M. Reilly
  • Tell Me No Lies: How to stop lying to your partner – and yourself- in the 4 stages of Marriage by
    Ellyn Bader, Peter Pearson, & Judith Schwartz
  • The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
  • Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Referrals & Guides

Pelvic Floor Physical Therapists

Oklahoma Therapists